My Wife Doesn't Believe
From: "derby5n1" derby5n1@y...
Date: Sun Jun 23, 2002 1:33 am
Subject: My Wife Doesn't Believe

Hello all,

I am an engineer, I have a degree, I believe that sometime in
the spring or early sumer of 2003 Planet X is going to pass Planet
Earth and the magnetic forces of Planet X will cause catastrophic
disasters as everyone has talked about will happen. Earthquakes, bad
weather, Hurricanes, Tidal Waves and the like will happen. The
problem is my wife doesn't suspect a thing therefore I cannot prepare
one iodee without her approval. Of course I could prepare without
her approval. I love her too much too do that to her. Does anybody
know what I am to do? Please help Love Derby.
From: "Di" <di@p...
Date: Sun Jun 23, 2002 11:06 am
Subject: Re: My Wife Doesn't Believe

Hi Derby,

Well, if you have done enough research on your own to convince yourself that planet x is real and that earthchanges are going to happen in 2003, you must familiarize your wife with this material. Honest communication is essential in a marriage. However, be prepared for one or all of the following reactions:

A: Hysteria

B: Disbelief and/or indifference

With A you can do the manly thing and calm her fears with your assurances of how to best survive the event. The archives of the Prep and Read-Only lists are full of information on this and you should be at least familiar with what to do before breaking the news of teotwawki to her.

With B you will be in the club that most of us belong to that take this subject seriously. At least you will have been honest with your wife and your feelings and at the very least you can prepare a bug-out bag for each of you that you can grab at a moments notice. The best thing you can do is have a PLAN and make it one that is as simple or as elaborate as you are comfortable with. If this does all come to pass in 2003 or beyond, you will be as ready as possible for it. Good luck.

Di

PS: I am cross-posting this to the Prep group as well :o)

From: "dalter2003" <dalter@z...
Date: Sun Jun 23, 2002 11:09 am
Subject: Re: My Wife Doesn't Believe

Do you really need her permission to act prudentially to prepare for
any number of possible disastors. Show her you really love her by
starting preparing. There are plenty of other possible disastors to
justify such preparations. You can tell her truthfully that you and
she would be fools not to. Point at the Mormons. Good Luck
From: "Pamela Jean" <pamela.stewart5@v
Date: Mon Jun 24, 2002 8:35 am
Subject: Re: [prep2003discuss] My Wife Doesn't Believe

Dear Derby,

I have many male friends in the same boat as you. With some of them, their wife rules the roost. My spouse didn't believe any of this and it took work on my part to change that. Now we are true partners.

Anyway, I don't know if that is your situation. You might just say that you have been doing some studying on weather and such and really believe that some serious earth changes are occurring. You feel that they best way to handle this is to be prepared. So between the terrorists agendas which could strike anywhere USA, and weather, you feel the best way is to have contingency plans put in place. Anyone would have to be blind now a days not to see this and agree. Anyway tell her you feel that you need to make some alternative plans. That includes notification of other relatives where you might need to re-settle at in case of emergency, a "Bug-Out-Bag" that is packed and placed in your trunk. You might interest her in a summer cabin and start looking at properties in "Safe Areas" If you seriously think about doing something like this, look into types of structures that could withstand strong winds, fires,floods and such. Maybe something with a basement, or a dome structure. She doesn't have to know all the reasons at first, but slowly introduce these ideas to her. Too much information at first might be too strong, that she will end up fighting you on this. Trust me, I know!

It will have to be her idea to want to learn more, but as a gifted educator, your goal is to make her want to know more. Get my drift? Educating her slowly will be your biggest help. Look up articles that you can give her to read. Let her talk to other people of like mind. A person will always listen to anyone they think is an authority figure before a spouse. That is some kind of quirky Dave Barry rule, but so true. You don't have much time, so you better get going talking to her.

Best wishes- PJ

From: "karin2002lube" <karin2002lube@y...
Date: Mon Jun 24, 2002 6:43 pm
Subject: More from the inexperienced Computer Lady

If anyone responds to my plea, please call collect or use Snail
Mail. First; THANK YOU Stephen, Laura and Di for your response to
my first e-mail. The following is a synopsis of how I got started
with the PLANET X subject and subsequent COMPUTER LEARNING. I've
been a regular listener of a radio program: COAST to COAST w/ ART
BELL [ 77 WABC in NY area }. On Jan.16,2002, the guest was MARK
HAZELWOOD who wrote the book BLINDSIDED, PLANET X PASSES IN 2003,
EARTHCHANGES. I took notes during this shocking program and added to
them on 3/8/02 when guest, Major Ed Dames mentioned planet x, and on
3/9 when guest Wayne Green [N.H.] responded to a caller. Mr. Green
said, "GET OUT OF THE CITIES..ALL HELL IS GONNA BREAK LOOSE." Then
on 4/17 Art's guest was an old Indian, RED ELK, who mentioned, "WHEN
THE EARTH TIPS OVER...."

Being depressed at the deaths of my husband {6/27} and mother
{11/4], I didn't start getting more info. on Planet X til 5/24/02,
when the librarian printed out Mark Hazelwood's 24 pgs. for me.

It's been 4 WEEKS I've been STRUGGLING to learn the computer re:
this subject, and I feel like I'm NOWHERE. I've been pestering
librarians and other computer users to help me, and all I've been
able to accomplish is to order 2 FUTURE maps of NO. AMERICA and WORLD
from the Matrix Institute in N.H. {Grodon Michael Scallions site}.,
and join Prep 2003 READ ONLY group and Preparation 2003 group,where I
had 102 messages. OVERWHELMING. I couldn't even get to them to
read. Kind library users set me up with an E-MAIL address. I've
been paying them money ; taking them to the diner; giving gifts, such
as Brownie Apple Sauce Cake I baked from scratch and items from my
beautiful Pottery collection.

While I'm tediously laboring in the library several times a
day, my diet, lawn care, household chores, etc. aren't getting done.
I CAN'T KEEP THIS UP! I need to connect with people via teleephone
or mail. While the EARTH is BURNING, I'm trying to figure out how to
center the computer screen!

LAURA: On tues. 6/18 Di (moderator for Prep2003.com) posted " Polar
Shift Preparedness Site." With help, I printed that message because
it mentioned "the primary function of this site is to serve as a
communications vehicle for the few of us in Northeast PA......" At
the bottom was WWW.nepanewsletter.com/polar .html address. I went
home. Then, on Thurs. evening 6/20, a FELLA at the computer next to
me, heard my frustration and helped me "click" to "CONTACTS" on that
site. 15 first names came on the screen. After discussing my lack
of computer skill, Tim agreed to help me . I agreed to pay him. He
picked out 10 names and E-MAILED my "beginner computer lady "
message. That's how I got your name. I thank you for your
spiritual outlook....it was calming. Unfortunately for me, I know
too much about this event to have a serene attitude. My LOVE &
BLESSINGS to you.

STEVE: Thanks about TROUBLED TIMES, INC. site . I had tried them
1x but I'll have my computer teacher, Tim, try again. After NANCY
LEADER ( zetatalk.com) was on Art Bell's program 6/11, I printed 4
pgs. from her site, but didn't get any contacts ( real humans). I
enjoyed hearing her, but felt she underestimated the effects of PX ,
i.e., " dig a trench and put corrogated metal over it." And, "it'll
be like camping." I taped the program. I also taped Ted Bryant 6/5
on TSunamis, Callers on px 6/14, and Gordon Michael Scallion on
6/10.

DI: Thank you for responding. I was a member of prep2003 READ ONLY,
and later joined prep2003prep, but after 102 messages ( articles), I
had the librarian unsubscribe me from the former. It was too
OVERWHELMING! I need HUMAN CONTACT (collect telephone or snail
mail). But, THANK YOU!

TO ALL: Since I gave my phone # , 2 people have called who
are interested in survival. Linda from CT. and John from MI.
Linda was thinking VT. We might take a trip in 2 weeks. I told
John Gordon Michael Scallion's future map shows most of MI. under
water.

To contact me, call collect at 973-335-5607. Ans. mach. picks up
after 5 rings. ONLY SERIOUS calls, please.

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